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S T U P I D - A word that will trigger my mum's anger

I bet every parent knows that children nowadays are mainly quick learners including myself. I honestly to say that I am pretty quick learner. And I would rather say I am a quick learner on something that I shouldn't learn at this age.

Hehehehhe.....I learnt many bad words that you can only or should only hear from ADULTS ! How did I learn it? Well I heard people saying those words, I heard the words from TV, songs, and also from my parents. Well of course they didn't teach me but I overheard them.

What special words that I learnt that will trigger my mum's anger??? Few of them...let me see... first one I learnt was " F*CK", then I learnt " KILL", lately I learnt "STUPID". Have you ever expect to hear these words from a kid at 3 yrs old? Well my parents and grandparents heard them all many times.

They started to worry..worry about what kind of person I would turn out to be? But I have been good now as mum finally has made me stop saying the "F*CK". To be fair enough whenever I hear she says this word I will also say the same thing to her " mama, you cannot say this word!!"

But mum's response was like "I am big girl, I can say that!". Of course I will never understand now why big person can say that but small person like me cannot say that. But mum only said that whenever she was angry at the level which she couldn't handle anymore...and that anger...majority of the time was caused by.... A D A M !! ME !!!!

Ok ok I got it already that I will never say that word. But there is another word S T U P I D that really trigger my mum's anger. Like tonight I was asking for some snack. Mum thought to give me some crackers with avocado dip which is my favourate. Mum thought to give me a different kind of crackers but I rejected and asking her to give me the other crackers from the pantry. And I said to her "STUPID" !

Now you can imagine what I have imagined from my vision. A skull with burning hot fire in her eyes ! How scary was it. She straightaway asked me " what did you say??" times many times. I was like... " I said I do not want this biscuit but I want that biscuit" ! You know trying to be smart. And mum goes" I heard you Adam, I am going to ask you again, and you do not lie, what did you say???" And I go " I said STOP!"

Of course I know mum clearly heard what I said but I wasn't dare enough to repeat it again because no matter what mum and myself knew what exactly going on. Mum asked me to come forward to her and stand infront of her. She asked me to put my hand out and I started to cry and hide my hands behind my back. She asked once again but I still not willing to surrend my hands.

Phewww...this time she let me go because it is pretty late now. Nearly 11pm she was still cooking for the curry paste because dad's friend wants to eat my mum's curry. Shes tired and its late for her to punish me and making those noises. But she said to me " Adam I do not want to hear that word from your mouth anymore, do you make myseld clear??". I nodded very fast and was feeling so relieved. Thank god is late now I guess next time if I am trying to make any trouble I know what time is suitable !

Imagine a son said S T U P I D to his mum. I totally understand why my mum was so mad. I am sorry, I didn't mean it but I said it out loud too quick and too smooth ! I promise you will never hear this word from me again.

To the children out there please do not do this to your parents. It is totally unacceptable no matter at what age you are.

My photo shoot @ childcare on 2006, 2007 & 2008

This photo taken on 2006 when I was about 1 year old

My first group of friends, used to be close but I forgot them now after I was transfered to a bigger centre. Do you see the guy sitting at the front row, the second one from the left? His name is Lipina, he is fijian. Guess what we were born on the same night, same hospital, and we were just about 1 to 2 hours apart.

He was born earlier than me. And Lipina was born with 5 kg..that was why her mum's scream scared my mum while my mum was waiting in waiting room. She heard th is woman was screaming soooooooooo loud...and that was Lipina's mum.

Lipina and I actually met while we were just the second day old in hospital. Mum was bored lying on the bed, when dad came to visit mum she wanted to have a walk around the hospital to check out other babies. And she saw Lipina..what attracted her was that the baby was huge with MASSIVE HUGE eyes..the eyes almost occupied his face. Mum thought was cute so she walked there and spoke to Lipina's dad who was holding him. My dad was holding me too..so initially we have met on the second day of our life.

Then after more than a year that I have been cared by Lullaby Cottage, mum saw Lipina's dad and mummy in the same centre and that time they all just realised their sons who were born the same time and same hospital are in fact together again in the same childcare. My parents were told by the carers in the childcare that Lipina and I actually are close buddies to each other all the time. ANd in fact Lipina's mum always talk to me whenever she comes to pick Lipina but she never knew that I was the baby she has met in the hospital. So did my mum.

What a coincidence. But..I am no longer seeign Lipina..coz Lullaby Cottage is only for kids from 0 to 2 years old. i was kicked out before I even turned 2 .. reason being I was too active...lullaby is abit smaller for me to run..and it was dangerous too because as u know this cottage is for mainly babies !! babies do not walk or run !! they are crawling on the floor..and imagine I ran like a wind...so the manager told my parents that I got to be transfered to the bigger centre which is where I am now Kindy College.

Lipina also has been transfered to another centre also for the kids from 2 to 5 years old but different location that suits her mum for dropping and picking him as that location is where his mum works. So we have been seperated since then. Mum still keep mentioning his name because she does not want me to forget Lipina. In fact mum never want me to forget all these friends who have been with me since I was baby. We were really close friends !

But some of the friends we are still in the same centre...like Lola ( the girl sitting at the first row and first one from the left), Anooshi ( 3rd girl sitting at the first row from the left), Louis ( first boy sitting at the front row from the right), and Ashton ( the first baby on the second row from the left).

Daddy's birthday on 13/11/08

Normally we don't celebrate birthday by eating out but this year mum suggested to have japanese dinner in the city reason being first she loves japanese food very very very much, and my dad also loves japanese food, last is because mum didn't need to cook...save her energy.

This Japanese restaurant was the first time we tried though mum knew this restuarant for the last 7 years in Sydney because she always go to the korean resturant that next to this Japanese restaurant.

My parents and myself didn't disappointed by the food. I enjoyed my vegetarian fried soba noodles...but mum said she could cook better. It was just way too ordinary.

But their food, those sushi, salad, chilli prawns were looking great and yummi according to them. I wish I would love to eat sushi but I guess not the time yet for me to LOVE sushi at my age now.

It was a pretty smooth night as they found parking in the city pretty easy. And we had a bit of walk around Chinatown. I would say it was a very nice night out in the city.

But guess what Dad has invited grandma, cezary, Thomas my uncle and his gf to come to our place for dinner ... hehehhehehe mum still has to cook !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Will let you guys know whats on the table tomorrow. I know mum is so lazy to cook lately but she has to !!

Cycling and Feeding ducks

For the last two weekends I didnt stay over night at my grandma's place because Sunday is the only day that my dad will be home and mum thought that I should stay home as well to spend time with him.

Therefore instead of sending me to my grandma house for a night my mum just sent me there for a day to spend with them until late night then will head home. With this way I still can spend time with them as well as with my dad. Just I don't sleep with my grandma.


Last week after arrived grandma's house we went to a park near by that I always go there because the park is HUGE !! BUt this time instead of walk there we rode bicycle. Mum was so excited because she used to ride bicycle alot during her childhood and she loves it so much. And its been ages since the last time she was on a bike.


Another excitement is that she will ride along with her son. Despite the important of safety she took me along with her bike and she took me around with one of her hand holding me and the other hand holding the bike handle. I like it because I could feel the FAST !! Mine bike is too tired for me to ride for a long journey and I was always far behind from them. Its no fun !!
I want a big bike for sure next time !!

Dance of the night @ Sharm El Sheikh

Ferry